Others may listen, encourage us, advise us, but the only one who can make a decision for us is us. I find it helps to meditate, to quiet myself and listen. To seek God's guidance.
He always knows the right answer to the question. He just waits for us to ask. Just ask and He will always answer. It may not be the answer we wanted but it is the right answer for us and comes at the right time for whatever soul searching question we've been struggling with.
When the answer comes, our intuition of the Spirit knows it is right. Sometimes it entails letting go of what we have been clinging to so desperately.
It me be the announcement of a new beginning, a new path, a new direction, a new challenge. Sometimes where we are or with whom we are is right where we should stay.
The Divine Truth is always the answer. When we are at a crossroads God is there waiting. We struggle so hard when all we need to do is surrender to his Divine Will.
Uncertainty, worry, anxiety, fear will not bring us answers. But a silent question spoken earnestly in prayer will remove all doubts, and God's assurance will give us the strength and the courage to follow our destiny.
To be confidant that we can do what we are here to do. To achieve our purpose. To make a difference in the lives of those we touch along the way.
God's answer is always the best answer. If it is in the Divine Plan there is nothing we desire that will not be fulfilled.
We are empowered by God to achieve our highest good and He will show us the way. You know your choice is right when you feel a sense of peace with the decision.
What we are meant to experience at this time in our life and with whom will come to us, and where we are supposed to be, we will be.
Live consciously that you may recognize your answer when it comes that you don't have a preconceived notion of how it should be packaged. God often surprises us.