May people believe that once you embark upon the journey to spirituality, you should not get mad. That you should always be loving and understanding. Get a grip! We are human beings! We must also remember the incident when Jesus kicked the table of the money changers over. He certainly was angry!
A spiritual consciousness does not make you immune to normal human response to human experiences. What it does, however, is give you tools to work with. We realize we need to surrender to a higher power to become whole.