Friday, April 29, 2016

Allowing Release

Death, like separation, divorce, or the abrupt termination of any kind of relationship, evokes a tremendous amount of emotion that must be released. The release results in closure. When you do not you wonder, you hurt, the whys to unanswered and eventually create anger and fear.

More importantly, when there is no closure, you miss the lessons and the blessings. You are never really sure why this person was in your life, what you shared to your benefit, what you learned about yourself, and why you are better off, better equipped to move on to new and more productive relationships. We're only robbed by death if we don't allow ourselves closure.